So why wasn't Jake healed? What good was it to have hope that he would be ok or that the treatments would work? If I had time to research I could list some quotes to tell you what the prophets and apostles have said. You can do that if you want. I asked God this question and this is what He told me.
Trials are a package deal. Hope helps you get through them, but you need to have hope for the right things.
My hope for Jake, was that whatever was best for him would happen. Being human, I was unqualified to know what that was...so I had to trust that God knew what that was. I love Jake so much that even if it meant I could no longer see him live his life...if the best thing for him was to go back to God, then that was what I hoped for.
Now Jake is on the other side of the veil helping to coordinate what is best for me...even if that means I have to stay here and endure many more trials, many more heart breaks and much more joy. Yes, joy has shown her pretty little face again, in my life. I really missed her!
It's been 7 months now, since Jake left. I've cried some good tears. It's the deepest sorrow I never imagined possible...but my heart is healing. Not every thought of Jake brings a tear. I feel that it hurts him to know how much I cry and how much my heart aches and he is doing everything he can to see me smile and hear my laugh again.
Perhaps I will never know why it was better for Jake to go, though I can't really say he left, because it seems he spends more time with me now than when he was alive and healthy.
Am I stronger now? I sure hope so.
Can I endure anything? I hope I don't have to find out.
But whatever God needs me to endure, I know He will be there for me and I have learned that so many of you will be there for me...and I am strong enough to be there for you...because that is what we do. We love each other and we lift hands that hang down.
I am not done loving or living or helping or assisting or serving...so we go on.